Let’s be honest
You don’t dread Mondays because you’re lazy
You dread them because work has become something you survive, not something you live for
Every Sunday evening, the anxiety creeps in
The chest tightens
Your body starts shutting down
Not because you didn’t rest, but because you’re walking into a place that’s draining the life out of you
But you still show up
Why?
Because bills don’t wait for healing
Because you’ve got mouths to feed, responsibilities to carry, and dreams you’ve parked so long you can’t even see them in your rearview anymore
And the scariest part?
You’re so used to surviving that you’ve started thinking this is normal
This Isn’t Just Burnout. It’s Bondage With a Paycheck
You wake up tired
Not just physically, but soul-deep
Your alarm doesn’t just interrupt sleep
It reminds you that your peace isn’t yours between 9 and 5
But you still smile
You answer emails
You hit targets
You join Zoom calls with your voice raised and your spirit low
No one claps for survival
No one promotes the emotionally exhausted
You keep quiet because saying “I’m not okay” feels like weakness
But deep down, you’re screaming
And you don’t even know what rest feels like anymore
So Why Don’t You Just Leave?
Because the people who say “Just quit” don’t understand
They don’t know what it means to be your family’s only lifeline
They don’t know what it means to carry cultural pressure, religious expectations, and economic reality on your back
They don’t know that walking away isn’t as simple as writing a resignation letter
You’re not staying because you’re weak
You’re staying because you’ve been forced to choose between survival and sanity
And in a world like this, most people choose survival
What Can You Do When You Can’t Leave?
Listen,
You may not be able to walk away today
But you don’t have to lose yourself in the process
Start here:
1. Find Your Voice Again
Journal. Talk. Scream into a pillow if you have to
Say what you’re feeling out loud
Silence is heavy. Words are released.
2. Set Small Boundaries Without Apology
Protect your break time
Say no without overexplaining
Don’t answer work calls after hours if it’s not life or death
You are not your job title
3. Create a Recovery Ritual
When work ends, don’t just crash
Transition intentionally
Light a candle. Take a shower. Walk. Pray. Something that tells your brain you’re safe now
4. Build an Exit Strategy, Quietly
Update your skills
Start a side hustle
Network
Don’t just dream of freedom. Prepare for it, brick by brick
5. Find Meaning Outside the Office
Volunteer. Write. Create. Serve
Remind yourself you are more than your tasks
The job can have your hours, but don’t let it own your identity
You’re Not Alone. And You’re Not Crazy
You’re not weak because you’re tired
You’re tired because you’ve been strong for too long, with no room to breathe
The truth is, you can hate your job and still be excellent at it
You can be a high performer and still feel hollow
You can smile in meetings and cry in the bathroom
It doesn’t make you a fraud
It makes you human
So give yourself grace
Take one small step toward healing today
Maybe it’s this blog
Maybe it’s texting a friend
Maybe it’s just breathing deeper for 30 seconds before that next call
Whatever it is, do it for you
Because even if you can’t walk away yet
You can still start walking back to yourself
Before You Go: Build Your Way Out Quietly
You may not be able to walk out of your job today
But you can start building a door
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